Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ndiphuphile Umntwana Oswelekileyo ? Ngaba ilungile okanye imbi?

Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kunokuhluka ngokuxhomekeka kumxholo ngamnye kunye namava omntu ophuphayo. Nangona kunjalo, nantsi ezimbalwa ezinokwenzeka ukutolikwa kwamaphupha kunye "Umntwana Oswelekileyo":

Ilahleko: Iphupha lingabonakalisa ukulahlekelwa ngumntwana okanye ubudlelwane nomntwana. Umntwana oswelekileyo unokumela ukulahlekelwa bumsulwa okanye amandla okudala.

Ukuzisola: Iphupha lingabonakalisa ukuzisola ngesenzo okanye isigqibo esibangele ukulahlekelwa okanye ukufa komntwana.

I-Trauma: Iphupha lingabonakalisa intlungu edlulileyo, njengokufa komntwana kwintsapho okanye kuluntu, okanye amava abuhlungu anxulumene nomntwana.

Ukuzibophelela: Iphupha linokubonakalisa uxanduva okanye ukuzinikela okunxulumene nomntwana, njengoxanduva lokukhulisa okanye ukunyamekela abantwana bakabani okanye abanye abantu.

Utshintsho: Iphupha lingabonakalisa utshintsho olukhulu okanye utshintsho oluqhubekayo ebomini bomntu, njengoqhawulo-mtshato okanye utshintsho lomsebenzi, oluchaphazela abantwana ababandakanyekayo.

Ubutyala: Iphupha lisenokubonakalisa imvakalelo yokuba netyala enxulumene nomntwana okanye imeko enxulumene nomntwana, njengokusilela ukumkhusela okanye ukumnyamekela ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukwamkelwa Kokufa: Iphupha lisenokubonisa inkqubo yokwemvelo yokwamkela ukufa, nokuba komntwana ebomini bokwenene okanye inkalo yobomi bukabani obuphelayo.

Ukuqala koMjikelo omtsha: Iphupha lingamela ukuphela komjikelo kunye nokuqala komjikelo omtsha. Umntwana oswelekileyo unokufanekisela isigaba sesiphelo sexesha elidlulileyo, evumela umntu ukuba agxile kwisahluko esilandelayo sobomi bakhe.

Intsingiselo yephupha uMntwana ongasekhoyo
Isichazi-magama sephupha uMntwana oswelekileyo / usana
Ukutolikwa Kwephupha Umntwana Oswelekileyo
Kuthetha ukuthini xa uphupha / ubona uMntwana ofileyo
Kutheni ndiphuphe umntwana ofileyo
Utoliko / Intsingiselo yeBhayibhile yoMntwana oswelekileyo
Lufuzisela ntoni umntwana / Umntwana oswelekileyo
Intsingiselo yoMoya kuMntwana / uMntwana oswelekileyo

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