Nkhani yonena za chisangalalo ndi kufunika kwake

 

Chimwemwe ndikumverera kwakukulu koteroko ndi kovuta kufotokoza. M'malingaliro anga, chisangalalo ndikumverera kokhutitsidwa, kukhutitsidwa ndi kukhutitsidwa komwe kumatipangitsa kumva bwino za ife eni ndi dziko lotizungulira. Chimwemwe chingapezeke m’zinthu zing’onozing’ono ndi zosavuta m’moyo, monga kumwetulira, kukumbatirana kapena kukambitsirana kosangalatsa, komanso m’zipambano ndi zipambano zomwe timapeza m’moyo wonse.

Kwa anthu ambiri, chisangalalo chimalumikizidwa ndi maubwenzi omwe ali nawo ndi anthu m'miyoyo yawo, kaya ndi abwenzi, banja kapena okondedwa awo. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, ena amakhulupirira kuti chimwemwe chimagwirizana ndi thanzi lawo ndi thanzi lawo, pamene ena amakhulupirira kuti zimagwirizana ndi ntchito zawo ndi ndalama zomwe apindula.

Kaya timaganiza kuti chimwemwe ndi chiyani, ndikofunikira kuchifunafuna ndi kuchikulitsa m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku. Izi zikutanthauza kukhala othokoza pa chilichonse chomwe tili nacho komanso kufunafuna kukhala bwino nthawi zonse, kukulitsa luso lathu ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zathu. Ndikofunikira kukhala omasuka ndi kuvomereza kusintha kwa moyo wathu, kusintha kuti tigwirizane ndi izo ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito kuti tizichita bwino.

Chimwemwe chimatha kufotokozedwa m'njira zambiri, koma ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti palibe tanthauzo lachilengedwe lomwe limagwira ntchito kwa anthu onse. Kwa ena, chimwemwe chingapezeke pokwaniritsa zolinga zaumwini ndi zaluso, kwa ena pocheza ndi okondedwa, pamene kwa ena, chimwemwe chingapezeke muzochita zosavuta monga kuyenda mu paki kapena kukambirana ndi comrade. Chimwemwe chingalongosoledwe kukhala kutengeka maganizo, kudzimva kukhala wokhutira ndi kukhutiritsidwa, kumene kungapezeke mwa njira zosiyanasiyana.

Kwa achinyamata ambiri, chimwemwe chingapezeke pofufuza ndi kupeza zilakolako zatsopano ndi zokonda. Tikamaganizira kwambiri zinthu zimene zimatisangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa, timakhala osangalala. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti chimwemwe chimapezeka muzinthu zazing'ono ndipo tiyenera kukhala omasuka ku zochitika zatsopano ndi zosiyana. Chimwemwe chimapezeka nthawi iliyonse ndipo chimapezeka m’mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana, choncho n’kofunika kukhala omasuka kuti tisinthe ndi kusangalala ndi moyo tsiku lililonse.

Chimwemwe chimakhudzananso ndi ubale wathu ndi anthu otizungulira. Kukhala ndi maunansi abwino, monga achibale ndi mabwenzi, kungatithandize kwambiri kukhala osangalala. Ndikofunika kusunga maubwenzi athu kukhala abwino ndikukhala omasuka komanso olankhulana ndi omwe ali pafupi nafe. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, n’kofunika kuonetsetsa kuti tikuika zofunika zathu patsogolo ndi kupeza malire pakati pa kudzithandiza tokha ndi kuthandiza ena.

Pamapeto pake, chimwemwe chingakhale ulendo, osati kopita. M’pofunika kusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse ya moyo wathu ndi kukhala ndi moyo wamakono m’malo mongoganizira kwambiri zam’tsogolo kapena zam’mbuyo. Ndi malingaliro abwino ndi mtima wotseguka, titha kupeza chisangalalo m'malo osayembekezeka ndikubweretsa m'miyoyo yathu komanso ya omwe akutizungulira.

Pomaliza, chimwemwe tingachifotokoze m’njira zosiyanasiyana, koma chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri ndikuti ndikumverera kokhazikika komanso kwaumwini komwe sikungafotokozedwe mwachisawawa. Munthu aliyense akhoza kupeza chisangalalo muzinthu zosiyanasiyana komanso zochitika zapadera pamoyo. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuyang'ana chisangalalo muzinthu zosavuta ndikuyamikira nthawi zokongola m'miyoyo yathu. M’pofunikanso kudziŵa kuti chimwemwe si mkhalidwe wokhalitsa, koma ndi njira imene imaphatikizapo khama ndi kuleza mtima. Choncho, tingayesetse kukulitsa chimwemwe m’miyoyo yathu mwa kuchita zinthu zimene zimatisangalatsa, mwa kukhala ndi maunansi abwino ndi okondedwa athu, ndi kukhala ndi maganizo abwino pa moyo. Chimwemwe ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali imene tiyenera kuiyamikira ndi kuikulitsa tsiku lililonse la moyo wathu.

 

Nenani kuti "chimwemwe ndi chiyani"

I. Chiyambi
Chimwemwe ndi lingaliro lokhazikika komanso lovuta lomwe lasangalatsa anthu kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo lafufuzidwa ndi magawo ambiri, kuphatikiza filosofi, psychology ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Tanthauzo la chimwemwe likhoza kusiyana pakati pa munthu ndi munthu, chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe, ndi nthawi ndi nthawi, koma nthawi zambiri limatanthawuza kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, kukhutitsidwa, ndi kukwaniritsidwa.

II. Mbiri ya lingaliro lachisangalalo
Mu filosofi, Aristotle anali woyamba kukambirana lingaliro la chimwemwe muzochitika mwadongosolo. Iye ankakhulupirira kuti chimwemwe ndicho cholinga chachikulu cha moyo wa munthu ndipo chingapezeke mwa kuzindikira zomwe munthu angathe kuchita. Munthawi ya Renaissance, lingaliro la chimwemwe linali logwirizana ndi lingaliro la kudzipeza wekha ndi chitukuko chaumwini, ndipo m'zaka za zana la XNUMX, Kuwunikira kunalimbikitsa lingaliro lakuti chimwemwe chingapezeke mwa kulingalira ndi chidziwitso.

III. Malingaliro apano pa chisangalalo
Pakadali pano, psychology yabwino ndi imodzi mwamaphunziro omwe amayang'ana kwambiri pakuphunzira za chisangalalo ndi moyo wabwino. Ikugogomezera luso laumwini ndi zinthu, monga chiyembekezo, kuyamikira, kudzikonda ndi kupirira, monga zinthu zofunika kwambiri pakupeza ndi kusunga chimwemwe. Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti chimwemwe chimayenderana ndi zinthu monga maunansi ochezera, thanzi, kukhutira ndi ntchito ndi ndalama, koma palibe njira imodzi yokha yopezera chimwemwe.

IV. Chimwemwe mu Psychology ndi Philosophy
Chimwemwe ndi mutu wa chidwi chachikulu mu filosofi ndi maganizo, ndipo kufotokoza ndi ntchito yovuta chifukwa lingaliro ili likhoza kukhala ndi matanthauzo osiyanasiyana kwa munthu aliyense. Kawirikawiri, chimwemwe chingatanthauze kukhala wokhutira, wokhutira, kapena wosangalala womwe ungakhalepo chifukwa cha zochitika zabwino monga chikondi, kupambana pa ntchito, zosangalatsa, kapena kuthera nthawi ndi abwenzi ndi achibale. Komabe, chisangalalo chingakhalenso mkhalidwe wokhazikika wamkati, mtendere, mgwirizano ndi inu nokha ndi ena, zomwe zingatheke kupyolera muzochita monga kusinkhasinkha, yoga kapena kudzifufuza.

Kafukufuku wambiri wamaganizo ayang'ana zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale wosangalala, ndipo zotsatira zake zimasonyeza kuti pali makhalidwe ndi zochitika zomwe zimakomera kuwonekera kwa dziko lino. Zinthu izi zikuphatikizapo maubwenzi a anthu, kudzikonda ndi kudzipereka, thanzi la thupi ndi maganizo, kudziyimira pawokha komanso kukhutira pa ntchito ndi moyo waumwini, komanso kugwirizana ndi chinthu chachikulu kuposa kudzikonda. Kuonjezera apo, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti chisangalalo chikhoza kukhudzidwa ndi majini, malo omwe anthu amakhala nawo komanso mlingo wa maphunziro.

Kupitilira pazolinga izi, ndikofunikira kutsindika kuti chimwemwe ndi chinthu chongoganizira komanso chachibale chomwe chimadalira momwe munthu aliyense amawonera komanso zomwe amakonda. Ngakhale kuti chingaoneke ngati chonulirapo chabwino ndi chokhumbidwa kwa anthu ambiri, chimwemwe sichipezeka mosavuta, kapenanso sichitsimikizo cha moyo wokhutiritsa ndi wokhutiritsa. M'malo mwake, lingakhale chitsogozo chothandiza ndi cholimbikitsa cholozera zochita zathu kukukhala ndi moyo weniweni, wodalirika, komanso wozindikira zomwe zimatilola kuti tikule mogwirizana ndikufikira zomwe tingathe kuti tikwaniritse zomwe tikufuna.

V. Mapeto
Pomaliza, chimwemwe ndi lingaliro lovuta komanso lokhazikika lomwe limatha kufotokozedwa ndikumveka mosiyana kuchokera kwa munthu kupita kwa wina. Ngakhale kuti mbiri yakale ya lingaliro lachisangalalo imayang'ana kwambiri pa filosofi ndi malingaliro, malingaliro amakono, a maganizo abwino, amayandikira nkhaniyi kuchokera kuzinthu zothandiza komanso zogwiritsidwa ntchito, kusanthula zinthu zomwe zimakhudza mkhalidwe wokhazikika wa moyo wabwino. Pamapeto pake, chisangalalo ndi njira yopitilirabe yodzizindikiritsa nokha komanso chitukuko chaumwini chomwe chimatha kukulitsidwa kudzera munjira zosiyanasiyana zamunthu.

 

Nkhani yonena za kufunika kwa chimwemwe

 

Mawu akuti “chimwemwe” angatanthauzidwe m’njira zambiri, ndipo amatanthauza zosiyana kwa aliyense wa ife. Anthu ambiri amafuna chimwemwe m’zinthu zakuthupi, pamene ena amachipeza m’maubwenzi ndi okondedwa awo kapena kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Kwa ine, chisangalalo si cholinga chomaliza, koma njira ya moyo. Ndi ulendo womwe umaphatikizapo kusamalira thupi ndi malingaliro anu, kuthokoza zomwe muli nazo, ndikugawana chikondi ndi chisangalalo ndi omwe akuzungulirani.

Kuti tikhale osangalala, m’pofunika kusamalira thupi lathu. Awa ndi malo okhawo amene tidzakhala nawo nthawi zonse, choncho tiyenera kusamala nawo ndi kuwakonda. Zakudya zopatsa thanzi, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse komanso kugona mokwanira ndi zina mwa zinthu zomwe zingathandize kuti thupi lathu likhale ndi thanzi labwino. Matupi athu akakhala athanzi komanso amphamvu, timatha kulimbana ndi nkhawa komanso kusangalala ndi moyo.

Chimwemwe sichimangokhudza thupi lathu komanso maganizo athu. Ndikofunika kukulitsa luso lowongolera kupsinjika, kuyeseza kusinkhasinkha, komanso kulabadira malingaliro athu ndi momwe tikumvera. Tikakhala ndi nkhawa kapena kuda nkhawa, sitingakhale osangalala. Choncho, n’kofunika kupeza njira zokhazikitsira maganizo athu ndi kumasuka, monga kuŵerenga, kumvetsera nyimbo kapena kuyenda koyenda m’chilengedwe.

Sitingakhale osangalala popanda maubwenzi abwino ndi achikondi ndi anthu otizungulira. Achibale athu ndi mabwenzi ndi amene amatichirikiza ndi kutimvetsetsa bwino koposa, ndipo chikondi ndi chikondi chawo chingatipangitse kukhala osangalala. Komanso, kuthandiza ndi kukhala wothandiza kwa anthu otizungulira kungatithandize kukhala osangalala. Ngakhale zinthu zing’onozing’ono zosonyeza kukoma mtima zingathe kubweretsa kumwetulira pankhope za anthu ndi kusintha miyoyo yawo.

Pomaliza, chimwemwe ndi lingaliro laumwini komanso laumwini, lofotokozedwa ndi munthu aliyense. Izi zitha kupezeka muzinthu zosavuta komanso zosayembekezereka, monga kuyenda paki kapena kukambirana ndi wokondedwa, komanso munthawi zovuta, monga kukwaniritsa cholinga kapena kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Kufunika kwa chisangalalo m'miyoyo yathu ndi kwakukulu, chifukwa kumatipangitsa kukhala okhutira ndi okhutira, ndipo kumatilimbikitsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu ndikuyang'ana njira zatsopano zosangalalira ndi moyo. Ndikofunikira kupeza nthawi yosinkhasinkha zomwe zimatibweretsera chisangalalo ndikukulitsa mphindi izi m'miyoyo yathu, chifukwa ndipamene tingakhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa komanso wokhutiritsa.