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Indatshana yokuhlonipha abadala

 

Ukuhlonipha asebekhulile kuyindaba ebucayi nebalulekile edinga ukunakwa nokuhlonishwa. Ezweni lapho intsha ihlale imatasatasa ngokuphila kwayo kanye nezinto ezibakhathazayo, sivame ukukhohlwa ngabantu abadala abasivulela indlela futhi basisize ukuba sifinyelele lapho sikhona namuhla. Kubalulekile ukubonisa inhlonipho nokubonga kulaba badala futhi ufunde kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ekuphileni.

Isici sokuqala esibalulekile sokuhlonipha abadala ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kwabo njengabantu. Wonke umuntu unokubaluleka okungaphakathi, kungakhathaliseki ubudala, ubulili, uhlanga noma enye into yangaphandle. Abantu asebekhulile ababona nje abantu abadala asebephile isikhathi eside; bangabantu abaqongelele ulwazi nokuhlakanipha, ababe nesandla emphakathini futhi abafanelwe yinhlonipho yethu.

Okwesibili, ukuhlonipha abadala kubalulekile ngoba laba bantu baneqhaza elikhulu emlandweni wethu. Abaningi babo baphila phakathi nezenzakalo ezinkulu zomlando futhi bazidela ukuze basinike ukuphila okungcono. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa inhlonipho nokubonga kulaba bantu njengoba bebambe iqhaza elibalulekile ekulolongeni umphakathi esiphila kuwo namuhla.

Okwesithathu, ukuhlonipha abadala kungasifundisa izifundo eziningi ezibalulekile ngokuphila. Abantu abadala baye babhekana nokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi futhi bafunda izinto eziningi ekuphileni kwabo. Bangasinika iseluleko nokuhlakanipha ebesingenakukuthola ezincwadini noma kweminye imithombo. Ngokubonisa inhlonipho kubadala nokulalela izindaba zabo, singathola izifundo eziningi ezibalulekile futhi sikhule njengabantu.

Ukuhlonipha abantu asebekhulile kungakhulunywa ngakho kakhulu futhi kahle, ngoba kuyisihloko esibaluleke kangaka emphakathini wethu kanye nomunye nomunye wethu, ngabanye. Lokhu akusho nje kuphela isimo sengqondo esinaso ngabantu abadala, kodwa nasendleleni esibaphatha ngayo, ezingeni lomphakathi, jikelele. Okulandelayo, ngizokwethula imibono emithathu ebonisa ukubaluleka kokuhlonipha abadala.

Okwesine, ukuhlonipha abadala kuyisenzo sokubonga kulabo abasenze lokhu esiyikho namuhla. Abadala bethu ngabantu abasikhulisile, basifundisa izinto eziningi esizaziyo manje, futhi abasisizile ukuthi sifike lapho esikhona namuhla. Kufanele sibahloniphe futhi sibabonge ngakho konke abasenzele kona.

Okwesihlanu, ukuhlonipha abantu abadala kubalulekile ngoba yibona abadlulisela izimiso namasiko omphakathi wethu. Asebekhulile yibo abalondoloza ulwazi nokuhlangenwe nakho abakuqongelele kukho konke ukuphila kwabo futhi bakudlulisele kulabo ababazungezile. Lolu lwazi nesipiliyoni kubalulekile ekugcineni isiko lethu kanye nobuntu bethu njengesizwe.

Okwesithupha, inhlonipho kubadala ibalulekile ngoba isisiza ukuba sifunde izindinganiso ezinjengozwela nobubele. Lapho siziphatha ngenhlonipho kubantu abadala, sifunda ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zabo futhi siqaphele izinselele nezidingo zabo. Lokhu kusisiza ukuba sithuthukise amakhono anjengozwela nobubele, angasiza kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bethu nalabo abasizungezile kanye nomphakathi uwonke.

ÎSengiphetha, inhlonipho kubantu abadala ibalulekile futhi kufanele isetshenziswe. Ngokubonisa inhlonipho nokubonga kulaba bantu, singakuqaphela ngokwengeziwe ukubaluleka kwawo wonke umuntu futhi sifunde izifundo eziningi ezibalulekile ngokuphila. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi iminyaka iyinani nje nokuthi abantu abadala bafanelwe inhlonipho yethu, kungakhathaliseki izimo zabo zomuntu siqu.

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Isingeniso:
Ukuhlonipha abadala kuyinzuzo ebalulekile kuyo yonke imiphakathi, kuhlanganise nomphakathi wethu wanamuhla. Abadala babhekwa njengomthombo wokuhlakanipha nokuhlangenwe nakho, futhi inhlonipho ngabo iwuhlobo lokuqaphela iqhaza labo emphakathini. Kuleli phepha, ngizokhuluma ngokubaluleka kokuhlonipha abadala, izizathu zokuthi kungani leli gugu libalulekile nokuthi lingatshalwa kanjani entsheni.

Ukuthuthukiswa:
Isizathu esibalulekile sokuthi kungani ukuhlonipha abadala kubalulekile sihlobene nendima yabo emphakathini. Abadala bawumthombo obalulekile wokuhlakanipha nokuhlangenwe nakho, futhi ngokubahlonipha, intsha ingazuza kulezi zimfanelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, asebekhulile bavame ukuba ngabantu abasengozini yezenhlalakahle, ezomnotho kanye nempilo. Ukubahlonipha kungaletha umuzwa wokubaluleka nokuqashelwa ekuphileni kwabo.

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Okunye ukubaluleka kokuhlonipha abadala kuhlobene nokudluliselwa kwamagugu. Ukuhlonipha abadala kungaba yindlela yokuziphatha ezizukulwaneni ezincane futhi kusize ukugcina izindinganiso ezibalulekile namasiko emphakathini. Futhi, leli nani lingaba uhlobo lokufunda inhlonipho nozwela kubantu abanezidingo ezikhethekile.

Ukuze kuthuthukiswe inhlonipho kwabadala, intsha kufanele ifundiswe futhi iqonde ukubaluleka kwalokhu kubaluleka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangahileleka emisebenzini ehlukahlukene emphakathini, njengokuvolontiya ezikhungweni eziphezulu noma ukuchitha isikhathi nasebekhulile emkhayeni noma komakhelwane. Le misebenzi ingaba uhlobo lokufunda uzwela nokukhulisa inhlonipho ngabantu asebekhulile.

Inhlonipho emphakathini wanamuhla:
Emphakathini wethu wanamuhla, ukuhlonipha asebekhulile kubonakala kuyinani elincipha ngokwandayo. Intsha eningi ichitha isikhathi sayo namagajethi ayo, yenza abangane bangempela futhi ishaye indiva iseluleko nolwazi lwalabo abadala kunabo. Lokhu kuwukulahlekelwa okukhulu emphakathini njengoba abantu abadala banokuningi okufanele bakufunde futhi bakunikeze. Ngokuzihlonipha nangokuzilalela, singafunda indlela yokuziphatha ekuphileni futhi sigweme amaphutha amaningi ebesingawenza.

Ukuhlonipha abadala kumelwe kukhuthazwe futhi kuhlakulelwe kusukela ebuntwaneni. Abazali bethu nogogo nomkhulu bayizibonelo ezibalulekile kithi futhi kufanele sibabonise inhlonipho nokwazisa. Emasikweni amaningi, abadala bathathwa njengabanendima ebalulekile emphakathini futhi bayahlonishwa futhi baziswa ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho nokuhlakanipha kwabo ekuphileni. Ngokuhlonipha abantu abadala, izingane zethu zizokhula zinenani elibalulekile elizozisiza zikhule zibe abantu abadala abanomthwalo wemfanelo futhi abaphelele.

Inhlonipho njengenani:
Ukuhlonipha asebekhulile akukona nje ukubaluleka kokuziphatha, kodwa futhi kuwumthwalo wemfanelo womphakathi. Emiphakathini eminingi, asebekhulile badinga ukusekelwa nokunakekelwa, futhi thina, njengamalungu alo mphakathi, sinomthwalo wemfanelo wokuhlinzeka ngalokhu kusekelwa nokunakekelwa. Ngokuhlonipha abadala bethu nokunikeza ukwesekwa nosizo, singakha umphakathi oqinile nolungele kangcono ikusasa.

Isiphetho:
Ekuphetheni, inhlonipho ngabadala iyinani elibalulekile okumelwe lihlakulelwe entsheni. Ngokuhlonipha abantu abadala, abantu abasha bangazuza ekuhlakanipheni nasekufundeni kwabo futhi basize ekugcineni izindinganiso namasiko abalulekile emphakathini. Imfundo nokuzibandakanya emisebenzini yomphakathi kungaba izindlela ezisebenzayo zokuhlakulela inhlonipho kubadala.

Indatshana enesihloko esithi "Abadala Bafanelwe Ukuhlonishwa Thina"

Igama elithi "inhlonipho" livame ukuhlotshaniswa namagugu afana nokwethembeka, ubuqotho nokwethemba. Kodwa ukuhlonipha abadala kuvame ukunganakwa emphakathini wethu. Nokho, laba bantu abahlakaniphile nabanolwazi banokuningi abangakunikeza futhi bafanelwe inhlonipho nokwazisa kwethu. Kule ndaba, sizohlola ukubaluleka kokuhlonipha abantu abadala nokuthi kungayithuthukisa kanjani impilo yethu.

Ukuhlonipha abadala kuyisici esibalulekile sezindinganiso zethu zamasiko nezokuziphatha. Laba bantu baphile isikhathi eside kakhulu kunathi futhi bathola okuningi kwalokho esingakufunda ezincwadini kuphela. Bahlakaniphile, banesipiliyoni futhi banokuningi abangakunikeza umphakathi wethu. Inhlonipho ngabo kufanele ibe ngokwemvelo futhi akufanele iphelele nje esenzweni senhlonipho kodwa kufanele ibe isimo sengqondo esivamile.

Emphakathini wanamuhla, asebekhulile bavame ukunganakwa noma baphathwe kabi. Ezikhathini eziningi laba bantu bathathwa njengomthwalo futhi intsha ayinakiwe. Lesi simo sengqondo esibi akukona nje ukungahloniphi, kodwa futhi akufanelekile. Ngempela, abadala banganikeza izifundo eziningi zokuphila nokuhlakanipha okungatholakali kwenye indawo. Bangasisiza sifunde ukuphatha ubudlelwano bethu futhi sithuthukise amakhono ethu okuxhumana nabantu.

Esinye isici esibalulekile sokuhlonipha asebekhulile ukuthi laba bantu bavame ukudinga ukunakekelwa nosizo. Emiphakathini yendabuko, ukuhlonipha asebekhulile kwakubonakaliswa ukunakekelwa nokukhathalela okunikezwa imikhaya yabo. Njengamanje, ukunakekelwa kwasebekhulile ngeshwa kuvame ukunikezwa abanakekeli kanye namakhaya anakekelayo. Lokhu kukhishwa kwangaphandle kungaholela ekuhlukaniseni kanye nasekuncishweni komuntu siqu kwalaba bantu, ngaleyo ndlela balahlekelwe izinzuzo zenani lokuhlonipha abadala.

Ekugcineni, inhlonipho ngabadala iyinani okufanele lihlakulelwe kuwo wonke umuntu kusukela ebuntwaneni. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela indima ebalulekile edlalwa yilaba bantu ekuphileni kwethu futhi sibabonise inhlonipho efanele, hhayi nje ngoba ilungile, kodwa futhi ngoba singafunda okuningi kulokho ababhekana nakho ekuphileni. Okokugcina, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukuhlonipha akusona isibopho, kodwa ukukhetha komuntu siqu okungaba nomthelela omuhle ebudlelwaneni bethu nalabo abasizungezile nasezimpilweni zethu. Ngokuhlonipha asebekhulile, singakha umphakathi ongcono, onozwela nonobumbano.

Shiya amazwana.