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Indatshana yothando lukamama

 

Uthando lukamama lungomunye wemizwa enamandla kakhulu umuntu angaba nayo. Uthando olungenamibandela futhi olukhulu olukumboza ngokufudumele futhi lukwenze uzizwe uphephile. Umama uyena okupha ukuphila, akunike isivikelo futhi akufundise indlela yokuphila. Ukunikeza okungcono kakhulu futhi uyazidela ngenxa yakho ngaphandle kokulindela ukubuyiselwa okuthile. Lolu thando alunakuqhathaniswa nanoma yimuphi omunye umzwelo futhi akunakwenzeka ukukhohlwa noma ukunganaki.

Wonke umama uhlukile futhi uthando alunikezayo luhlukile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumama onakekelayo novikelayo, noma umama onomfutho ngokwengeziwe kanye nemvelo ezamazamayo, uthando alunikezayo luhlala luqinile futhi lungokoqobo. Umama uhlezi ekhona ngawe noma ngabe usebuhleni nasebubini, uhlale ekunikeza uxhaso oludingayo ukuze ufeze amaphupho nezifiso zakho.

Uthando lukamama lubonakala kuzo zonke izenzo zikamama. Kungokumamatheka kwakhe, ekubukekeni kwakhe, ekuboniseni kwakhe uthando nasekunakekeleni kwakhe izingane zakhe. Uthando olungenakulinganiswa ngamazwi noma ngezenzo, kodwa luzwakala kuwo wonke umzuzu ochithwa naye.

Kungakhathaliseki ubudala, yonke ingane idinga uthando nesivikelo sikamama. Lona yilona olunikeza ukunethezeka nokuthula okudingayo ukuze ukhule futhi uthuthuke ube umuntu omdala onamandla nonomthwalo wemfanelo. Yingakho uthando lukamama lungenye yezinto ezibalulekile futhi eziyigugu kakhulu ekuphileni kwanoma ubani.

Isibopho phakathi kukamama nengane singenye yezinhlobo zothando eziqine futhi ezimsulwa. Kusukela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, umama uqala ukunikezela impilo yakhe futhi avikele ingane yakhe ngazo zonke izindlela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isikhathi sokuzalwa noma zonke izinsuku ezilandelayo, uthando lukamama luhlala lukhona futhi luwumuzwa ongenakuchazwa ngamagama.

Uthando lukamama alupheli, kungakhathalekile ukuthi ingane ineminyaka emingaki. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane edinga ukunakekelwa noma umuntu omdala odinga isiqondiso nokusekelwa, umama uhlale ekhona ukuze asize. Ngisho noma ingane yenza amaphutha noma yenza izinqumo ezimbi, uthando lukamama alunamibandela futhi alupheli.

Emasikweni nasezinkolweni eziningi, umama uhlonishwa njengophawu lothando lwaphezulu. Njengonkulunkulukazi oyisivikelo, umama uyayivikela futhi ayinakekele ingane yakhe, njalo eyinika uthando nothando oludingayo. Ngisho noma kushone ingane uthando lukamama alupheli futhi luqinisa labo abasele.

Sengiphetha, uthando lukamama luwumzwelo oyingqayizivele futhi ongenakuqhathaniswa. Uthando olungenamibandela olukwenza uzizwe uphephile futhi uvikelekile. Umama nguye okufundisa ukuphila njalo ukunika usekelo oludingayo. Kungakho ungalinge ulushaye indiva noma ukhohlwe uthando nokuzinikela kukamama wakho.

 

Mayelana nothando esilunikezwa omama

 

I. Isingeniso

Uthando lukamama luwumuzwa oyingqayizivele nongenakuqhathaniswa ongenakuqhathaniswa nanoma yini enye. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi kuwumuzwa wendawo yonke, wonke umama unendlela yakhe yokubonisa uthando lwakhe ngengane yakhe.

II. Izimpawu zothando lukamama

Uthando lukamama alunamibandela futhi lungunaphakade. Umama uyayithanda futhi uyayivikela ingane yakhe ngisho nalapho yenza amaphutha noma iziphatha kabi. Ngokunjalo, uthando lukamama alupheli ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kodwa luhlala luqinile futhi luqinile kukho konke ukuphila.

III. Umthelela wothando lukamama ekukhuleni kwengane

Uthando lukamama lunendima ebalulekile ekukhuleni kwengane. Ingane ekhuliswe endaweni enothando nenothando maningi amathuba okuthi ikhule iphile kahle ngokomzwelo, engqondweni nangokwenhlalo. Izophinde ithuthukise ukuzethemba okukhulu kanye nekhono elikhulu lokuzivumelanisa nezinguquko nezinselele.

IV. Ukubaluleka kokugcina uthando lukamama

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Kubalulekile ukuthi uthando lukamama lwesekwe futhi lugqugquzelwe emphakathini. Lokhu kungafezwa ngezinhlelo zokweseka omama nezingane, kanye nokugqugquzela umgomo wokuvumelanisa impilo yomndeni nempilo yobungcweti.

V. Ukuxhumana kukamama

Uthando lukamama kungathiwa lungomunye wemizwelo enamandla nemsulwa kakhulu umuntu angaba nayo. Kusukela lapho owesifazane eba ngumama, uba nesibopho esijulile nengane yakhe esiyohlala ukuphila kwakho konke. Uthando lukamama lubonakala ngothando, ukunakekelwa, ukuvikelwa, nokuzinikela okungenamibandela, futhi lezi zici zikwenza kube yigugu kakhulu emhlabeni wethu.

Ezinyangeni zokuqala neminyaka yokuphila kwengane, uthando lukamama luzibonakalisa ngesidingo sokuyondla, ukuyinakekela nokuyivikela. Owesifazane uzinikela ngokuphelele kulo msebenzi, ekhohlwa ngezidingo zakhe kanye nokukhathazeka kwakhe. Lesi sikhathi sibalulekile ekukhuleni kwengane, futhi uthando nokunakekelwa njalo kukamama kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwayo ngokomzwelo nangokwenhlalo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane izothuthukisa ubuntu bayo, kodwa iyohlale iphethe inkumbulo yothando olungenamibandela eyaluthola kumama.

Njengoba ingane ikhula futhi izimele, indima kamama iyashintsha, kodwa uthando alushintshi. Owesifazane uba umhlahlandlela onokwethenjelwa, umsekeli nomngane okhuthaza ingane yakhe ukuthi ihlole umhlaba futhi ilandele amaphupho akhe. Ezikhathini ezinzima, umama uhlala nengane futhi ayisize inqobe izithiyo.

VI. Isiphetho

Uthando lukamama luwumuzwa oyingqayizivele nongenakuqhathaniswa ongaba nethonya elihle ekukhuleni kwengane. Ngokusekela nokukhuthaza uthando lukamama, singaba neqhaza ekuthuthukisweni komphakathi onobunye nonokulinganisela.

 

Ukwakheka ngothando olungapheli lukamama

 

Kusukela ngizalwa, ngezwa uthando lukamama olungapheli. Ngakhulela esimweni sothando nokunakekelwa, futhi umama wayehlale engisekela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Wayeyiqhawe lami, futhi namanje, owangibonisa ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba ngumama ozinikele.

Umama wanikela impilo yakhe yonke kimina nezingane zakithi. Udela izidingo zakhe futhi ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi siyajabula futhi sinempilo. Ngikhumbula ngivuka ekuseni ngathola ukudla kwasekuseni sekulungisiwe, izingubo sezilungisiwe nesikhwama sesilungele ukuya esikoleni. Umama wayehlale ekhona ukuze angikhuthaze futhi angisekele kunoma yini engangizimisele ukuyenza.

Ngisho nalapho ngibhekene nezikhathi ezinzima, umama wayeyinsika yami yokusekela. Ngikhumbula engigona futhi engitshela ukuthi uyohlale eseduze kwami, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Wangibonisa ukuthi uthando lukamama alupheli futhi akasoze angilahla.

Lolu thando olungapheli lukamama lwangenza ngaqonda ukuthi uthando lungenye yezinto ezinamandla kakhulu emhlabeni. Kungasenza sinqobe noma isiphi isithiyo futhi sinqobe noma yimuphi umkhawulo. Omama bangamaqhawe eqiniso anikela impilo yabo yonke ekuvikeleni nasekusekeleni izingane zabo.

Okokugcina, uthando lukamama luwuhlobo lothando oluyingqayizivele olungenakuqhathaniswa nanoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lothando. Ungamandla amangalisayo asinika amandla okubhekana nanoma yisiphi isithiyo futhi sinqobe imingcele yethu. Njengoba nje umama wayehlale ekhona ngenxa yami, omama bakhona ukuze basibonise ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthanda okungapheli nokuzinikela ngokuphelele kumuntu.

Shiya amazwana.