Indatshana enesihloko esithi "Uthando Lwaphakade"
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Uthando lungomunye wemizwa enamandla kakhulu futhi enamandla esingabhekana nakho njengabantu. Ungamandla angasikhuthaza, asikhuthaze futhi asigcwalise ngenjabulo, kodwa futhi angaba umthombo wobuhlungu nokuhlupheka lapho ulahlekile noma ungabiwe. Kodwa uthando lwaphakade luwuhlobo olukhethekile lothando olujulile futhi oluhlala njalo kunanoma iyiphi enye indlela yothando.
Uthando lwaphakade luwuthando oluhlala impilo yonke futhi lungabonakala phakathi kwabalingani ababili abangabangane bomphefumulo noma phakathi komzali nengane. Kuwuthando oludlula isikhathi nendawo futhi olukhona ngale kwemingcele yethu yenyama. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uthando lwaphakade lukhona ngale kwaleli zwe futhi lungamandla kaNkulunkulu abopha imiphefumulo yethu.
Lolu hlobo lothando lungaba kokubili isipho kanye nenselele. Nakuba kungaba yinto enhle kakhulu futhi eyanelisayo, kungase kube inselele ukuthola nokugcina uthando lwaphakade. Lokhu kudinga ukuzibophezela okuqhubekayo, ukuqonda okujulile kanye nokuxhumana okuvulekile nokwethembeka phakathi kwabalingani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungase kube nzima ukulondoloza lolu thando ngezikhathi zezinselele nobunzima, kodwa kungenzeka ngokuyekethisa, ngothando kanye nokuqondana.
Uthando lwaphakade alugcini nje ngokuphathelene nezothando kanye nentshiseko, kodwa futhi ngokuthanda labo abaseduze kwethu ngaphandle kwemibandela futhi ngaphandle kokulindela. Ukuthanda ngale ndlela kungaguqula izimpilo zethu futhi kulethe ushintsho oluhle emhlabeni wethu.
Uthando lungamandla adlula isikhathi nendawo. Ingabopha imiphefumulo emibili kuze kube phakade, kungakhathaliseki izimo zangaphandle. Uthando lwaphakade yilolo hlobo lothando oludlula umgoqo wesikhashana futhi lungazwakala futhi luzwakale empilweni yonke, kungakhathaliseki ubudala noma nini.
Nakuba uthando lwaphakade ngezinye izikhathi lubonakala luwumqondo nje wothando, kunezibonelo eziningi zomhlaba wangempela ezifakazela okuhlukile. Imishado ehlala amashumi eminyaka noma ngisho namakhulu eminyaka ayivamile, kodwa ayikho. Kusukela emibhangqwaneni edumile efana no-Romeo noJuliet noma u-Tristan no-Isolde, kuya kogogo bethu nomkhulu ababendawonye impilo yonke, uthando lwaphakade lusikhumbuza ukuthi kungenzeka futhi kufanelekile ukulwa nalo.
Nakuba uthando lwaphakade lungase lubonakale luyinto engenakwenzeka ekuqaleni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu akusho ukuthi ubuhlobo buyoba buphelele noma bungenazinkinga. Ubudlelwano obuhlala njalo budinga umsebenzi omningi, ukuvumelana nokuzidela. Kodwa lapho kukhona uthando olujulile phakathi kwabantu ababili, kungaba umfutho onamandla wokunqoba noma isiphi isithiyo futhi nibhekane nezinkinga zokuphila ndawonye.
Sengiphetha, uthando lwaphakade lungamandla aqinile futhi ahlala njalo angagcwalisa izimpilo zethu ngenjabulo nenjabulo. Luwuthando oludlula isikhathi nendawo futhi lungatholakala ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Nakuba kungaba inselele ukulondoloza lolu thando, kungenzeka ukulugcina ngokuzibophezela, uthando nokuqondana.
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Mayelana nothando lwaphakade
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I. Isingeniso
Uthando umuzwa onamandla futhi onamandla ongazwakala ngezindlela ezahlukene kanye nokuqina. Kodwa kukhona uhlobo lothando oludlula ukulinganiselwa kwesikhathi nendawo, olwaziwa ngokuthi uthando lwaphakade. Lolu hlobo lothando abaningi balubheka njengolumsulwa futhi lujule kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlobo zothando. Kuleli phepha, sizohlola umqondo wothando lwaphakade futhi sihlole izici zalo ezihlukanisayo.
II. Izimpawu zothando lwaphakade
Uthando lwaphakade lubonakala ngokuthi luphikelela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lweqa imingcele yokuphila nokufa. Lolu hlobo lothando lungatholwa ngendlela ejulile futhi ejulile, ludale ukuxhumana okudlula ukuqonda komuntu. Uthando lwaphakade alunakwenzeka phakathi kwabantu ababili kuphela, kodwa futhi phakathi kwabantu nezilwane, noma phakathi kwabantu nezinto noma imibono.
Uthando lwaphakade nalo lubhekwa njengolungenamibandela, okusho ukuthi aluthonywa izimo noma izenzo zalabo abahilelekile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isimo, uthando lwaphakade luhlala lungashintshiwe futhi alunciphi ngokushuba. Futhi, lolu hlobo lothando luhlanzekile futhi lungenabugovu, lushukunyiswa kuphela isifiso sokuhlinzeka injabulo nothando kwabathandekayo.
III. Izibonelo zothando lwaphakade
Kunezibonelo eziningi zothando lwaphakade ezincwadini namasiko athandwayo. Isibonelo esivelele yindaba kaRomeo noJuliet, abafa ndawonye esenzweni sothando olumsulwa nolungenakonakala. Esinye isibonelo ifilimu ethi "Ghost", lapho abalingiswa uSam noMolly beqhubeka nothando lwabo ngisho nangemva kokushona kukaSam.
Kukhona nezibonelo eziningi zothando lwaphakade phakathi kwabantu nezilwane, njengendaba kaHachiko, inja eyayilinda inkosi yayo esiteshini sesitimela nsuku zonke iminyaka engu-9, ngisho nangemva kokufa.
IV. Uthando njenge-utopia
Ezweni lapho ubudlelwano buvame ukuba obukha phezulu futhi budlula ngokushesha, uthando lwaphakade lungabonakala njenge-utopia. Nokho, kusenabantu abakholelwa ngokuqinile emandleni nasekuqineni kothando lweqiniso. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi uthando lwaphakade alugcini nje ngokuthola umuntu ozokwabelana naye ngempilo yakho, lumayelana nokuthola umuntu okuphelelisa futhi okusekela kuzo zonke izici zempilo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izithiyo ezingase ziphakame empilweni yakho.
V. Ubukhona bothando
Uthando lwaphakade akusho ukuthi nizojabula ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kusho ukuthi nizohlala ndawonye noma ngabe ubhekene nabuphi ubunzima. Kumayelana nokuba nesineke, uzwela, ukuqonda, kanye nokuzimisela ukusebenzela ubudlelwano bakho nsuku zonke. Kubalulekile futhi ukwethembeka nokukhulumisana ngokukhululekile, ukuhloniphana kanye nokweseka omunye ngaso sonke isikhathi.
VI. Isiphetho
Uthando lwaphakade luwuhlobo lothando oludlula isikhathi nendawo, lwakha isibopho esiqinile nesingenakuguqulwa phakathi kwalabo abahilelekile. Lolu hlobo lothando lubhekwa ngabaningi njengolumsulwa futhi lujule kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlobo zothando futhi alukwazi ukwenzeka phakathi kwabantu kuphela, kodwa naphakathi kwabantu nezilwane noma izinto. Ekugcineni, uthando lwaphakade lungabhekwa njengendlela yokuqonda nokuxhumana.
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Ukwakheka ngothando olungenamkhawulo
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Uthando ngomunye wemizwa enamandla kakhulu ekhona emhlabeni. Unamandla kangangokuthi uyakwazi ukubopha abantu ndawonye kuze kube phakade. Ngezinye izikhathi uthando lungaba namandla kangangokuthi luphila ngisho nangemva kokufa kwalabo abathintekayo kulo, lube yilokho esikubiza ngokuthi "uthando lwaphakade."
Phakathi naso sonke isikhathi, abantu abaningi abadumile baye bazwakalisa ukukholelwa kwabo ebukhoneni bothando lwaphakade. Isibonelo, imbongi yase-Italy uDante Alighieri wabhala ngothando lwakhe ngoBeatrice ku-"Divine Comedy", futhi u-Romeo noJuliet bamelela isibonelo sakudala sothando lwaphakade ezincwadini. Empilweni yangempela, zikhona futhi izibonelo zothando lwaphakade, njengothando luka-John Lennon no-Yoko Ono noma lwe-King Edward VIII nomkakhe u-Wallis Simpson.
Kodwa yini eyenza uthando lube phakade? Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi imayelana nokuxhumana okuqinile ngokomoya nangokomzwelo phakathi kwabantu ababili abahilelekile okubavumela ukuthi bakhulume futhi baqonde omunye nomunye ezingeni elijulile. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi uthando lwaphakade lusekelwe eqinisweni lokuthi abantu ababili banezindinganiso nemigomo efanayo ekuphileni, okubenza bafanelane ngokuphelele futhi baphelelisane.
Noma ngabe siyini isizathu, uthando lwaphakade luwumuzwa omuhle nokhuthazayo osikhumbuza ukuthi kunokuthile okungaphezu kobudlelwane obukha phezulu nobudlulayo. Kungaba umthombo wamandla nogqozi kulabo abahilelekile, ubanike isisekelo esiqinile sokwakha ubuhlobo besikhathi eside nobujabulisayo.
Sengiphetha, uthando lwaphakade luwumuzwa onamandla nokhuthazayo ongasinda ngisho nangemva kokufa kwalabo abahililekile kuwo. Kungase kusekelwe ekuxhumaneni okuqinile ngokomoya nangokomzwelo noma izindinganiso nemigomo eyabiwe ekuphileni, kodwa noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, kuwuphawu lwamandla nenjabulo othandweni.
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