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Isincoko malunga Inkcazo kabawo

 
Utata yindoda engaqhelekanga, indoda eyomeleleyo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Uneenwele ezimnyama ezidityaniswe nemisonto yesilivere, kwaye amehlo akhe amdaka anjengehlathi elishinyeneyo nelingaqondakaliyo. Mde kwaye ungumdlali wezemidlalo, intaba yamandla kunye nokuzimisela. Rhoqo kusasa ndimbona esenza umthambo egadini nangaphambi kokuba atye isidlo sakusasa, oko kundenza ndicinge ngendlela azinikele ngayo kwimpilo yakhe nakwintlalontle yakhe.

Utata ungumntu othanda iincwadi nenkcubeko, owandibongoza ukuba ndifunde kangangoko ndinako. Ndiyakuthanda ukuva amabali akhe malunga nohambo lwakhe kwihlabathi jikelele kunye nokubona inkangeleko yobuso bakhe xa endixelela ngezinto azifumeneyo. Ndiyamncoma ngolwazi lwakhe olukhulu kunye nothando awabelana ngalo nam.

Into eyenza uTata akhetheke kangaka sisimo sakhe sengqondo ngehlabathi. Phezu kwayo yonke imiqobo nobunzima awayejamelene nabo, wayesoloko enethemba yaye eqinisekile ngekamva. Uthanda ukuthi "iingxaki ngamathuba okufunda" kwaye uphatha ubunzima bakhe njengezifundo zobomi. Kweli hlabathi lineziphithiphithi neenguqu eziqhubekayo, ubawo undifundisa ukuba ndibe yindoda enengqondo ephangaleleyo nekhaliphileyo ekwaziyo ukujamelana nayo nayiphi na imiqobo.

Yonke imihla ndiyabona ukuba ndinethamsanqa lokuba notata onjengaye. Ndiyakuthanda ukucinga ngawo onke amaxesha amnandi esasiwachithe kunye nazo zonke izifundo awandifundisa zona. Nangona eyindoda eyomeleleyo nezimiseleyo, uTata ubonisa uthando ngeendlela ezincinane nezichuliweyo, ngamazwi akhe afudumeleyo nangezandla zakhe ezincinane, nto leyo endenza ndisoloko ndiyiva indlela andithanda ngayo.

Nangona sele ndibonise iinkalo ezininzi zikatata, ziseninzi ezinye izinto ezimenza abe yindoda ekhethekileyo. Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo endizixabisayo ngotata wam kukuthanda kwakhe nokuzibophelela kusapho lwethu. Uhlala ephuma kwindlela yakhe ukuze aqinisekise intuthuzelo kunye nokhuseleko lwethu, kwaye uhlala efumaneka ukusinceda ngayo nantoni na esiyidingayo. Nangona eyindoda exakekileyo nenembopheleleko, usoloko efumana ixesha lokubakho ukuze asinike inkxaso yakhe engagungqiyo.

Ngaphandle kokuba ngutata ozinikeleyo, utata ukwangumzekelo. Wandifundisa izinto ezininzi ezixabisekileyo ebomini, njengokubaluleka kokusebenza nzima nokuzingisa ukuze ndifikelele usukelo, kwanokubaluleka kokuhlonela abanye nokunyaniseka. Wandifundisa nokuba ndikhaliphe kwaye ndikholelwe kum, ndithande kwaye ndihloniphe usapho lwam, kwaye ndibe nombulelo ngazo zonke iintsikelelo ebomini bam.

Ukuqukumbela, utata ungumntu omangalisayo kwaye ungumzekelo. Ndiyambulela ngazo zonke izifundo zobomi andinike zona nangalo lonke uthando nenkxaso andinike yona kule minyaka idlulileyo. Kuluvuyo ukuba notata ozinikele nozinikele ngolo hlobo, kwaye ukuba ngunyana wakhe yenye yezona ntsikelelo zibalaseleyo ebomini bam.
 

intetho nesihloko "Inkcazo kabawo"

 
Intshayelelo:
Utata ngumntu obalulekileyo ebomini bam. Ungumntu ozinikele kwintsapho yakhe kwaye uhlala ekulungele ukusinika inkxaso kunye nokhokelo. Kule ngxelo, ndiza kuchaza iinkalo ezenza ubawo abe ngumntu okhethekileyo nobalulekileyo kum.

Inkcazo:
Utata ungumntu onobuntu obuqinileyo nozimiseleyo. Unokholo olungagungqiyo kwimilinganiselo yakhe kwaye uhlala ebambelele kuyo. Ukongezelela, utata yindoda ekrelekrele kakhulu enamava obomi. Unengqondo ephaphileyo yaye usoloko ekulungele ukunikela amacebiso aluncedo nokhokelo xa silufuna.

Kwakhona, utata ungumntu onentliziyo enkulu. Usoloko ekulungele ukunceda abo bamngqongileyo aze anikele inkxaso ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwezinto eziphathekayo xa kuyimfuneko. Utata wayesoloko esecaleni kwam ngamaxesha amnandi ingakumbi awona anzima. Ungumcebisi wokwenene kwaye ndiyamncoma ngokunyamezela nesibindi sokumelana nobunzima bobomi.

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Enye inkalo ebalulekileyo kabawo kukuba ungumthandi omkhulu wendalo. Ixesha elininzi uchitha ngaphandle aze azikhulisele esakhe isitiya. Ubawo uhlala ekulungele ukwabelana ngokuthanda kwakhe indalo kwaye asifundise indlela yokuxabisa nokukhusela okusingqongileyo.

Ndingatsho nangotata ukuba ungumntu othanda usapho lwakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into kwaye wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukusenza sonwabe. Unobuntu obuqinileyo namandla okwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza nezilungileyo, nto leyo eye yandifundisa ukuzithemba ngakumbi ndize ndithembele kwisigqibo sam. Utata naye uyayithanda imidlalo ingakumbi ibhola ekhatywayo kwaye uyathanda ukusithatha siye kubukela imidlalo. Ndikhumbula ndisengumntwana ndibuya xa kuphuma isikolo, utata ebesele edlala nam nabantakwethu eyadini okanye esifundisa ukuphosa ibhola engobozini. Ngaloo ndlela, safunda ukuba imidlalo nokuzilolonga kubalulekile kwimpilo yethu nakulwalamano lwethu neentsapho zethu nabahlobo.

Ngaphandle koko, ubawo yindoda enenkcubeko ngokubanzi kwaye ethanda uncwadi nembali. Kwiminyaka edlulileyo, wayehlala ethetha nam ngababhali abakhulu kunye neziganeko ezibalulekileyo zexesha elidlulileyo. Wandikhuthaza ukuba ndifunde kakhulu ndize ndikhulise ulwazi lwam, yaye ngaloo ndlela ndafunda ukuxabisa ubugcisa nenkcubeko nokukonwabela ukufunda nokuhlolisisa imbali.

Isiphelo:
Utata ungumntu okhethekileyo nobalulekileyo kum. Ungumzekelo wesibindi, ukunyamezela kunye nesisa. Ndiya kuhlala ndiwakhumbula amaxesha esiwachithe sikunye kwaye ndiyawaxabisa onke amacebiso nokhokelo athe wandinika lona ukutyhubela iminyaka. Ndinethamsanqa ukuba notata onjalo kwaye ndinqwenela ukulandela umzekelo wakhe ebomini.
 

UKWAKHIWA malunga Inkcazo kabawo

 
Yayiyimini entle yasentwasahlobo, mna notata sasihamba epakini. Njengoko sasihamba, ndaqalisa ukuphawula iinkcukacha ezithile ngotata ezandichukumisayo zaza zandenza ndaqonda ukuba ungumntu obalaseleyo.

Utata wam yindoda ende eyomeleleyo eneenwele ezimnyama namehlo amdaka. Unembonakalo efudumeleyo kwaye uncumo lwakhe lwalusoloko lundenza ndizive ndikhuselekile. Ngelo xesha, ndaphawula indlela wonke umntu owayesingqongileyo awayema ​​ngayo ukuze amjonge, yaye ndaziva ndinethamsanqa lokuba ngutata wam.

Ndaqalisa ukucinga ngazo zonke izinto endazifunda kuye ekuhambeni kwexesha. Undifundise ukuba namabhongo nokulwela into endiyifunayo ebomini. Indibonise ukubaluleka kwemilinganiselo efana nokunyaniseka, ingqibelelo kunye novelwano.

Ukongezelela, utata wam yindoda enoburharha obumangalisayo. Uyakwazi ukuguqula nayiphi na imeko ibe ngumzuzu wokuzonwabisa kunye nokuhleka. Ndihlala ndizikhumbula kakuhle iingokuhlwa esasidlala kunye size sihleke de zibe buhlungu izidlele.

Ekugqibeleni, ndaqonda ukuba utata ungumntu omangalisayo kwaye ndinethamsanqa lokuba naye njengotata. Ebesoloko endinceda kwaye endixhasa kuyo yonke into endiyenzayo. Ndinombulelo ngazo zonke izifundo andinike zona nangawo onke amaxesha amahle esiwachithe kunye.

Shiya iikhomenti.