Nkhani za mchemwali wanga

M’moyo wanga, munthu mmodzi amene nthaŵi zonse anali ndi malo apadera anali mlongo wanga. Ndiwoposa mlongo, ndi mnzanga wapamtima, wondikhulupirira komanso wondithandizira kwambiri. M’nkhani ino, ndifotokoza maganizo anga okhudza ubwenzi wapadera umene ndili nawo ndi mlongo wanga komanso mmene ubwenzi umenewu watikhudzira m’kupita kwa nthawi. Mutu wa nkhani yanga ndi "Mlongo wanga - nthawi zonse pambali panga".

Kwa zaka zambiri, ndakhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri ndi mlongo wanga. Tinakulira limodzi ndipo tinadutsamo zambiri. Tinali ndi mphindi zoyanjanitsa ndi kukangana, koma tinkalimbikitsana. Ndizodabwitsa kukhala ndi munthu yemwe amakhalapo kwa ine nthawi zonse zivute zitani zomwe zikuchitika pamoyo wanga. Mlongo wanga ndi amene amandiseka n’kuyiwala mavuto amene ndili nawo. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, iyenso ndi munthu amene amandithandiza kudzuka m’mavuto ndi kupita patsogolo.

Mlongo wanga ndi munthu wondilimbikitsa. Ndakhala ndikuchita chidwi ndi kufunitsitsa kwake komanso kudzipereka kwake pa chilichonse chomwe amachita. Kuyambira ali wamng’ono, mlongo wanga nthaŵi zonse ankakonda kwambiri kuvina ndipo ankathera nthaŵi yochuluka m’chipinda choyeserera. Ndidawona kulimbikira ndi ntchito zomwe adachita kuti akwaniritse maloto ake ndipo ndidalimbikitsidwa ndi zokhumba zake. Tsopano mlongo wanga ndi katswiri wovina ndipo amadzinyadira kwambiri komanso zomwe wakwanitsa. Ndi umboni wakuti tikamachita khama ndiponso khama, tingathe kukwaniritsa cholinga chilichonse chimene timaganizira.

Komabe, sikuti zonse zinali bwino pakati pa ine ndi mlongo wanga. Nthawi zina tinkasiyana maganizo komanso kukangana. Ngakhale zinali choncho, tinaphunzira kulankhulana komanso kumvetserana. Pamapeto pake, tinayamba kumvetsetsana bwino ndi kuvomerezana mmene tilili. Kumvetsetsana ndi kukhululukirana kumeneku kunalimbitsa ubale wathu ndi kutithandiza kukhala ogwirizana kwambiri kuposa kale lonse.

Palibe mawu okwanira ofotokoza ubale wapadera womwe ndili nawo ndi mlongo wanga. Ndife ochulukirapo kuposa abale ndi alongo, ndife mabwenzi enieni ndi odalirika. Anthu angaganize kuti ndife osiyana kwambiri, koma mwanjira ina, timalumikizidwa mozama. Nthawi zonse timapereka phewa lothandizira, gawo lanzeru kapena dzanja lothandizira, zivute zitani.

Mlongo wanga ndi munthu wamphamvu kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti moyo nthawi zina unkatibweretsera zopinga, iye anakwanitsa kuzigonjetsa atakweza mutu wake ndi chidaliro chosagwedera. Ndimasilira luso lake lothana ndi vuto lililonse ndikuwona mbali yowala ya zinthu, ngakhale munthawi yamdima kwambiri. Ndi chilimbikitso kwa ine komanso munthu amene ndimasilira ndi mtima wanga wonse.

Ine ndi mlongo wanga timakumbukira zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa pamodzi kuyambira tili ana. Tinkayenda kuzungulira paki, kusewera masewera kapena kuonera mafilimu usiku womwewo wa Loweruka ndi Lamlungu. Tsopano, ndife okalamba ndipo moyo watitengera njira zosiyanasiyana, koma tidakali limodzi nthawi zonse. Tikakumananso, timayamba pomwe tidasiyira ndipo zimamveka ngati palibe nthawi yomwe yadutsa. Nthawi zonse ndife ana okondana ndi kuthandizana, mosasamala kanthu za kukula kwathu kapena kutalikirana.

M'dziko lodzaza ndi phokoso ndi chisokonezo, mlongo wanga ndi malo amtendere ndi bata. Ndikakhala naye, nthawi zonse ndimakhala wotetezeka komanso wamtendere. Nthawi zonse amandithandiza ndikafuna malangizo kapena kumvetsera. Chodabwitsa, mlongo wanga ndi munthu amene amandidziwa bwino komanso amandimvetsa popanda ine kunena zambiri. Iye ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali m’moyo wanga ndipo ndine woyamikira kukhala naye ngati mlongo wanga.

Pomaliza, mlongo wanga ndi munthu wapadera kwa ine, mphatso yeniyeni m'moyo wanga. Sali mlongo chabe, ndi mnzanga wapamtima komanso wondikhulupirira, nthawi zonse amakhala wondilimbikitsa ndi kundichirikiza. Kupyolera mwa iye, ndinaphunzira zinthu zambiri zofunika pa moyo ndi ine ndekha, ndipo ndimawathokoza chifukwa chondithandiza kukhala munthu amene ndili lero. Ndine wodalitsika kukhala ndi mlongo wotero ndipo ubale wathu ukhalabe wolimba komanso wokongola ngakhale tikukula ndikukula aliyense payekhapayekha.

Buku ndi mutu "Mlongo wanga - chitsanzo cha chikondi, ulemu ndi kudalira"

Chiyambi:
Mchemwali wanga wakhala wofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanga, ndipo wandiphunzitsa zinthu zambiri zofunika pa moyo. Iye ndi munthu wapadera kwa ine ndipo ndikufuna kugawana nawo zina mwa zomwe ndaphunzira kuchokera kwa iye kudzera mu pepalali.

Chikondi chopanda malire
Mlongo wanga wakhala akundisonyeza chikondi chopanda malire, mosayembekezera komanso osandiweruza. Anandiphunzitsa kukhala wachifundo ndi wosamala za ena. Mchemwali wanga anali pafupi nane nthaŵi zonse, mosasamala kanthu za mkhalidwewo ndipo anandithandiza pa zosankha zonse zimene ndinapanga m’moyo.

Kulemekezana
Ine ndi mlongo wanga tinakulira limodzi ndipo tinaphunzira kulemekezana. Anandisonyeza kufunika kolemekeza ena ndipo anandiphunzitsa kumvetsera mwatcheru ndiponso kumvetsera mwatcheru nthawi yake pamene akufunikira. Analinso chitsanzo kwa ine cha mmene ndiyenera kuchitira zinthu ndi anthu ena ndiponso kulemekeza anthu onse.

Khulupirirani ndi kuthandizira
Mchemwali wanga anandiphunzitsa kufunika kokhulupirira munthu ndi kumuthandiza pa nthawi zovuta. Nthawi zonse anali pafupi nane, kundilimbikitsa komanso kundipangitsa kudzidalira ndi mphamvu zanga. Mlongo wanga anandipatsanso malo otetezeka ndi odalirika kuti ndifotokoze maganizo anga ndi maganizo anga popanda kunditsutsa kapena kudzudzulidwa.

Chitsanzo chotsatira
Mlongo wanga ndi chitsanzo kwa ine ndipo amandilimbikitsa kuti ndikhale munthu wabwino. Anandiphunzitsa kukhala munthu wachifundo, waulemu komanso wodzidalira. Kudzera m’chitsanzo chake, mlongo wanga anandisonyeza kuti mwa kukondana, kulemekezana ndi kukhulupirirana, titha kukhala paubwenzi wabwino ndi wokhalitsa ndi okondedwa athu.

Za ubale pakati pa abale

Ubale pakati pa abale ndi alongo ndi umodzi mwa maubale ofunika kwambiri komanso amphamvu m’miyoyo yathu. Ubale umenewu ndi wapadera chifukwa abale ndi alongo ndi anthu amene timagawana nawo nthawi zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wathu ndipo tingathe kukula ndi kuphunzira limodzi. Kenako, tisanthula mutuwu mwatsatanetsatane.

Ubwino wa ubale wabwino wa abale
Kukhala paubwenzi wabwino ndi abale athu kungatibweretsere mapindu ambiri, monga kukulitsa luso locheza ndi anthu, kudzidalira komanso kulimbikitsana maganizo. Zingathandizenso kupanga malingaliro otetezeka ndi okhazikika m'moyo.

Mmene tingakulitsire ubale wathu ndi abale athu
Kuti tikhale paubwenzi wabwino ndi abale athu, m’pofunika kuphunzira kulankhulana bwino ndi abale athu ndi kumasuka nawo. Komanso, tiyenera kukhala oleza mtima komanso ofunitsitsa kumvetsera maganizo awo, ngakhale kuti sitikugwirizana nawo. Komanso, kuthera nthawi yabwino pamodzi kungathandize kulimbitsa ubwenzi wathu.

Zotsatira zoyipa za ubale woyipa wa abale
Ubale wosokonekera kapena wosweka ukhoza kusokoneza thanzi la m'maganizo ndi m'malingaliro a m'bale aliyense. Izi zingayambitse mavuto a nkhawa, kuvutika maganizo komanso kudzipatula. Conco, n’kofunika kuyesetsa kukhala ndi unansi wabwino ndi kuyesetsa kuthetsa vuto lililonse pakati pathu.

Kodi tingatani kuti tithane ndi mikangano ndi abale athu?
Kusemphana maganizo n’kosapeŵeka muubwenzi uliwonse, ndipo ubale wa abale ndi alongo nawonso umakhala wosiyana. Pofuna kuthetsa mikangano, m'pofunika kukhala chete ndi kupeza njira zothetsera mikangano. M’pofunikanso kuonetsetsa kuti tikuganizira zosoŵa ndi malingaliro a ena ndi kukhala ofunitsitsa kupepesa ndi kukhululukira.

Kutsiliza
Pomaliza, mlongo wanga ndi m'modzi mwa anthu ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanga ndipo ndimaona kuti ndili ndi mwayi kukhala naye m'moyo wanga. Iye ndiye gwero langa la chilimbikitso ndi chilimbikitso ndipo amandipatsa chithandizo chomwe ndimafunikira. Ubwenzi wathu ndi wapadera, wokondana kwambiri ndi kulemekezana, ndipo kuti ndife banja kumapangitsa mgwirizano wathu kukhala wolimba kwambiri.

Kupanga kofotokozera za Mlongo wanga, bwenzi langa lapamtima

 

Monga ndimadziwira ndekha, mlongo wanga wakhala pafupi nane. Ngakhale pamene tinali aang’ono ndipo tinali kumenyana, tinapanga kusintha mofulumira kwambiri ndikupitirizabe kuseŵera limodzi. Pamene tinali kukula, tinakhala mabwenzi apamtima ndi apamtima. Mlongo wanga wakhala m'modzi mwa anthu ofunika kwambiri m'moyo wanga, wondibisira zakukhosi komanso wondithandizira.

Tili aang’ono, tinkakonda kuseŵera limodzi tsiku lonse ndipo timakondabe kukhala limodzi. Timayenda mu paki, kupita ku mafilimu kapena kusewera masewera a pakompyuta. Kaya tikuchita chotani, ndife okondwa kukhala limodzi. Mchemwali wanga ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima ndipo nthawi yomwe timakhala limodzi ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri pa tsiku.

Khalidwe lina limene ndimayamikira mchemwali wanga ndi loti nthawi zonse amandithandiza ndikam’funa. Kaya ndivuto la kusukulu kapena kusweka mtima, amandimvera ndipo amandipatsa malangizo abwino. Mwanjira ina, mlongo wanga amanditsogolera pa moyo wanga ndipo amandithandiza kupanga zisankho zabwino kwambiri.

Chomwe chimandisangalatsa kwambiri pa mlongo wanga ndichakuti ali ndi umunthu wamphamvu komanso wodziyimira pawokha. Sadzilola kuti akopeke ndi ena ndipo amatsatira maloto ndi zilakolako zake. Ndinaphunzira zambiri kwa iye ndipo ndimayesetsa kutsatira chitsanzo chake, kukhala wolimba komanso kutsatira maloto anga.

Pomaliza, mlongo wanga si wachibale chabe, komanso bwenzi losasinthika komanso munthu wofunikira m'moyo wanga. Timagawana zokumbukira zambiri zokongola ndipo tikuyembekeza kukhala ndi zochitika zina zambiri limodzi. Mlongo wanga ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima ndipo sindikanatha kulingalira moyo wanga popanda iye.