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Nkhani yakumudzi kwathu

Kumudzi kwathu ndi malo omwe nthawi zonse amabweretsa zikumbukiro zabwino komanso malingaliro oti ndikhale nawo komanso chikhumbo. Ndi malo ang'onoang'ono, omwe ali m'madera akumidzi, ozunguliridwa ndi mapiri ndi nkhalango, kumene nthawi ikuwoneka kuti yaima. Kumeneko n’kumene ndinathera mbali yaikulu ya ubwana wanga ndi kumene ndinaphunzira zambiri za maphunziro a moyo amene ndinagwiritsira ntchito pambuyo pake.

Kumudzi kwathu n’kumene ndinaphunzira kusangalala ndi zinthu zosavuta komanso kuyamikira makhalidwe abwino. Kumeneko ndinaphunzira kukhala wodalirika ndi kuthandiza anthu a m’dera lathu. Kaya ndinali kugwira ntchito m’dimba, kusamalira ziweto, kapena kuthandiza kumanga nsewu watsopano, ndinaphunzira kukhala m’gulu la anthu a m’mudzimo ndi kukhala wotanganidwa nawo.

Komanso mudzi wakwathu ndi malo amtendere ndi chilengedwe, zomwe nthawi zonse zimandithandiza kuti ndiwonjezere mabatire ndikupumula. Nthaŵi zonse ndinkakonda kuyenda m’nkhalango kapena kukwera njinga zazitali m’misewu yakumidzi. Ndinaphunzira kuyamikira kukongola kwa chilengedwe komanso kusangalala ndi zinthu zosavuta pamoyo.

Mudzi wa kwathu ndi malo odzala ndi miyambo ndi zikhalidwe zomwe zaperekedwa ku mibadwomibadwo. Mukangofika mu ngodya yaying'ono iyi yakumwamba, nthawi yomweyo mumamizidwa mumkhalidwe wamtendere ndi waubwenzi. Anthu a m'mudzimo ndi olandiridwa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala okonzeka kugawana nkhani ndi zochitika ndi alendo odzaona malo. Izi ndi zowona zomwe zimapangitsa tawuni yanga kukhala malo apadera komanso apadera.

Kupatulapo anthu, malo achilengedwe ozungulira mudziwo ndi ochititsa chidwi chimodzimodzi. Minda ya tirigu, mitsinje yowoneka bwino komanso nkhalango zowirira ndi zitsanzo zochepa chabe za kukongola kwachilengedwe komwe kumazungulira mzinda wa kwathu. Amakhala chizindikiro chosalekeza kwa anthu am'deralo, zomwe zimawapatsa malingaliro amtendere ndi bata m'dziko lotanganidwa.

Pomaliza, kwathu ndi malo apadera kwa ine, zodzaza ndi zikumbukiro zabwino komanso maphunziro amoyo. Kumeneko ndinaphunzira kukhala munthu wodalirika, woloŵetsedwamo ndi kuyamikira zinthu zosavuta ndi zenizeni. Ndi malo omwe ndidayamba kukhala munthu ndipo nthawi zonse idakhalabe mumtima mwanga ngati malo achikondi komanso okondedwa.

Za mudzi umene ndinabadwira

Mudzi wakumudzi ukuimira malo omwe tinabadwira ndikukhala ubwana wathu. Kaya anali malo ang'onoang'ono komanso abata kapena otanganidwa komanso osangalatsa, kukumbukira kwathu malowa kumakhalabe kozama m'miyoyo yathu. Mu lipotili tiwona kufunikira kwa mudzi wakumudzi komanso momwe mudziwu wakhudzira miyoyo yathu.

Mbali yofunika kwambiri ya mudzi wa kwawo ndi dera. Anthu okhala m’mudzi nthawi zambiri amakhala ogwirizana komanso amathandizana. Mgwirizano umenewu nthawi zambiri umabwera chifukwa chakuti anthu amakhala ochepa ndipo aliyense amadziwana. M’mudzi wakwawoko, anthu amathandizana ndipo amadera nkhaŵa za moyo wa anthu a m’dera lawo. Mgwirizanowu ndi madera omwe tonsefe tidakumana nawo tili ana ndipo zidatilimbikitsa m'njira yabwino.

Mbali yachiwiri yofunikira ya mudzi wobadwa ndi kugwirizana ndi chilengedwe. Mudziwu nthawi zambiri umakhala pakati pa chilengedwe, wozunguliridwa ndi mapiri, nkhalango kapena mitsinje. Ana okulira m’malo otero amaphunzitsidwa kuthera nthaŵi yawo yaulere panja, kusewera m’nkhalango kapena kusamba mumtsinje. Kulumikizana kumeneku ndi chilengedwe ndikofunikira pa thanzi lathu lamalingaliro ndi thupi chifukwa kumatithandiza kupumula ndikumasula kupsinjika kwa tsiku ndi tsiku.

Mbali ina yofunika kwambiri ya tauni yakwawo ndi miyambo ndi chikhalidwe cha kumaloko. Kumudzi komweko, tili ndi mwayi wolumikizana ndi mbiri ndi miyambo ya malo athu. Mwachitsanzo, tingathe kuchita nawo zikondwerero za kumaloko kapena kuphunzira kupanga zinthu zachikhalidwe monga tchizi kapena buledi. Kulumikizana kumeneku ku miyambo ndi chikhalidwe kungatithandize kusunga mizu yathu ndikumvetsetsa mbiri ya malo athu.

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Pomaliza, kwawo ndi malo apadera mu mtima mwathu, zimene zinatilimbikitsa ndiponso kutithandiza kukula monga munthu payekha. Mgwirizano wamagulu, kulumikizana ndi chilengedwe komanso chikhalidwe cha komweko ndi zina mwazinthu zomwe zimatipangitsa kumva kuti tikugwirizana ndi malo omwe tinakulira ndikulikonda moyo wathu wonse.

 

Nkhani yakumudzi kwathu

Tauni yakwathu ndi malo apadera kwa ine, chifukwa imaimira malo amene ndinathera ubwana wanga ndi unyamata wanga. Ndi mudzi waung'ono womwe uli m'mphepete mwa nkhalango, komwe kumakhala anthu osavuta komanso olimbikira. Zomwe ndimakumbukira ndili mwana zimagwirizana kwambiri ndi malo okongola ozungulira mudzi komanso masewera omwe ndinkasewera ndi anzanga.

Malo amodzi okongola kwambiri m’mudziwu ndi mtsinje umene umadutsa pakati pake. M’nyengo yachilimwe, tinkathera maola ambiri m’mphepete mwa mtsinjewo, kupanga mabwato a mapepala kapena kungoyang’ana malo okongola. Kuzungulira mtsinjewu, kuli nkhalango zambiri, kumene timapitako maulendo ataliatali kapena kuthyola bowa ndi zipatso. Umu ndi mmene ndinadziwira kukongola kwa chilengedwe chondizinga ndipo ndinakulitsa ulemu ndi kuyamikira chilengedwe.

Kumudzi kwathu ndi komwe anthu amadziwana komanso kuthandizana. Ndimakumbukira bwino anansi anga amene anandiphunzitsa kusamalira nyama pabwalo kapena amene anandipatsa malangizo ndi malangizo a kalimidwe ka dimba. Ndimakumbukiranso bwino zikondwerero za m’mudzi, zimene anthu onse a m’mudzimo ankasonkhana kuti asangalale ndi kukondwerera miyambo ya kumaloko.

Komabe, mudzi wa kwathu ulinso ndi mavuto ndi zovuta zomwe madera onse akukumana nazo. Vuto limodzi lalikulu lomwe mudzi wathu likukumana nalo ndi kusamuka kwa anthu kupita kumizinda. Izi zapangitsa kuti mudziwu ukalamba komanso kuchepa kwa achinyamata. Zimenezi n’zomvetsa chisoni chifukwa mudzi wanga uli ndi zinthu zambiri zothandiza ndipo ukhoza kukhala malo abwino kwambiri olera ana.

Pomaliza, kwathu ndi malo apadera, wodzaza ndi kukongola kwachilengedwe ndi anthu odabwitsa. Ndi malo omwe adandithandiza kuphunzira kuyamikira miyambo yachikhalidwe ndikulemekeza chilengedwe. Ngakhale zili ndi zovuta zake, mudzi wanga ukhalabe malo okondedwa mu mtima mwanga.

Siyani ndemanga.