Nkhani za Ntchito imakumangirira, ulesi umagwetsa

 

Moyo ndi njira yayitali yodzaza ndi zosankha ndi zisankho. Zina mwa zosankhazi ndi zofunika kwambiri kuposa zina, koma chilichonse chingakhudze moyo wathu. Chimodzi mwa zisankho zofunika kwambiri zomwe timapanga ndi kusankha kuchuluka kwa ntchito komanso mphamvu zomwe tikufuna kugwira. Izi zikhoza kufotokozedwa mwambi wodziwika bwino: "Ntchito imakumangirira, ulesi umakugwetsa."

Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ntchito sikutanthauza kupita kuntchito ndikuchita zomwe mwauzidwa kuchita. Ntchito ikhoza kukhala ntchito iliyonse yomwe imafuna khama ndi kutsimikiza mtima kuti ikwaniritse, mosasamala kanthu za cholinga chomaliza. Ngati tisankha kukhala aulesi ndi kupewa kugwira ntchito molimbika, tidzangokhala chete osakula. Kumbali ina, ngati tisankha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro athu ndi matupi athu, titha kuchita zinthu zodabwitsa ndikukwaniritsa maloto athu.

Ntchito ikhoza kutithandiza kuzindikira maluso athu ndi luso lathu, kukulitsa luso lathu lolankhulana komanso kukulitsa kudzidalira kwathu. Kumbali ina, ulesi ukhoza kutipangitsa kudziona kukhala opanda chisungiko ndi opanda chitsogozo m’moyo. Zingayambitsenso mavuto azachuma ndi anthu, monga kulephera kulipira ngongole kapena kusunga maubwenzi anu.

Chofunikira kumvetsetsa ndikuti palibe ntchito yomwe ili yaing'ono kapena yayikulu kwambiri. Ngakhale ntchito imene ingaoneke ngati yopanda pake kapena yosafunika ingakhale ndi chiyambukiro chabwino pa moyo wathu ndi anthu otizungulira. Ngakhale ntchito zing'onozing'ono zingathe kuchitidwa ndi kudzipereka ndi chilakolako, ndipo zotsatira zake zidzakhala zowoneka.

Ntchito ikhoza kuwonedwa ngati chida chofunikira pa chitukuko chaumwini ndi ntchito. Ngakhale kuti achichepere ambiri amafuna kupeŵa ntchito ndi kusangalala ndi nthaŵi yopuma, chikhutiro chenicheni ndi chipambano kaŵirikaŵiri chimadza mwa kulimbikira ntchito ndi khama. Ngati mukufuna kukwaniritsa maloto anu ndikuchita bwino, ndiye kuti muyenera kuphunzira kuwongolera mphamvu zanu m'njira yoyenera ndikuvomereza kuti kugwira ntchito molimbika ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakuchita bwino.

Pamene mukugwira ntchito mwakhama, ndikofunika kukumbukira kufunika kokhala ndi thanzi labwino. Ngakhale anthu omwe amagwira ntchito molimbika kwambiri amafunikira kukhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yopumula ndi kupumula kuti asunge magwiridwe antchito ndi zokolola. Ndikofunikanso kuti musasokoneze ntchito ndi khama losafunikira, monga ntchito zomwe sizikubweretserani phindu lililonse kapena zokolola.

Ntchito ndiyofunikira kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu ndikumanga tsogolo lanu, koma muyenera kudziwa kuti sikophweka komanso kosangalatsa nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina, ntchito ikhoza kukhala yotopetsa kapena yolemetsa, ndipo anthu ena angamve kuti akukakamizidwa kuti amalize ntchito zawo panthawi yake. Komabe, ndi malingaliro abwino ndi chifuno champhamvu, mungaphunzire kusangalala ndi ntchitoyo ndikukhutira ndi ntchito yanu.

Pomaliza, musachite mantha kuyesa zinthu zatsopano kapena kupanga zisankho molimba mtima pazantchito zanu komanso zolinga zanu. Kugwira ntchito molimbika kungakuthandizeni kukhala ndi chidaliro komanso kutsimikiza mtima, zomwe zingatsegule zitseko zatsopano ndikukupatsani mwayi watsopano m'moyo. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, ulesi ndi kupewa ntchito zingakulepheretseni kukwaniritsa zimene mungathe. Ntchito imakumangitsani ndipo ulesi umakugwetsani - choncho sankhani mwanzeru.

Pamapeto pake, ntchito ingatithandize kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu ndi kukwaniritsa maloto athu. Sitingayembekeze kuti zinthu zizingochitika zokha, tiyenera kumenyera nkhondo. Tiyeneranso kukhala okonzeka kuthana ndi zopinga ndi kuphunzira pa zolakwa kuti tipite patsogolo m’njira imene tikufuna.

Pomaliza, ntchito ndi imodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri kwa anthu, osati kuti azitha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, komanso kuti adzitukule payekha ndikukhutira. N’zoona kuti ulesi ukhoza kukhala wokopa, koma sitiyenera kuulola kuti utilamulire ndi kutilepheretsa kuchita zonse zimene tingathe. Ponse paŵiri mwaukatswiri ndi patokha, ntchito ingatibweretsere chikhutiro chokulirapo, monga kukwaniritsa zolinga, kukulitsa maluso, ndi kukulitsa ulemu waumwini. Pomaliza, tiyenera kuphunzira kukhala odzisunga ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi ndi khama pa zomwe timachita kuti tisangalale ndi ntchito komanso kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu.

Buku ndi mutu "Ntchito ndi ulesi: ubwino ndi zotsatira"

Chiyambi:

Ntchito ndi ulesi ndi machitidwe awiri osiyana aumunthu omwe ali ndi zotsatira zazikulu pa moyo wathu ndi omwe ali pafupi nafe. Zonse ziŵiri, ntchito ndi ulesi zingalingaliridwe kukhala njira ya moyo, ndipo kusankha imodzi kungasonyeze chipambano kapena kulephera m’moyo. Mu lipoti ili tidzasanthula ubwino ndi zotsatira za ntchito ndi ulesi, kuti timvetse bwino kufunika kwawo m'miyoyo yathu.

Ubwino wa ntchito:

Ntchito ili ndi mapindu angapo ofunika kwa ife. Choyamba, ntchito imatithandiza kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu komanso kukwaniritsa maloto athu. Kupyolera mu kugwira ntchito molimbika, tingawongolere maluso athu ndi luso lathu, zomwe zingapangitse chipambano ndi kukhutitsidwa kwaumwini. Kuwonjezera apo, ntchito ingatipatse gwero la ndalama ndi kudziimira paokha pazachuma, zomwe zimatithandiza kupeza zofunika pa moyo ndi kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Komanso, ntchito ingathenso kutipatsa kumverera kuti ndife amodzi komanso odziwika ndi anthu, kudzera mukuchita nawo ntchito zomwe zimapindulitsa anthu.

Zotsatira za ntchito mopambanitsa:

Ngakhale kuti kuli ndi phindu, kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kungathenso kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zoipa pa thanzi ndi moyo wathu. Kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kungayambitse kutopa kwa thupi ndi maganizo, kupsinjika maganizo kosatha, matenda a maganizo ndi kusalinganika m'moyo waumwini. Kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kungayambitsenso kuchepa kwa moyo, mwa kuchepetsa nthawi yomwe mumakhala ndi banja, abwenzi ndi zosangalatsa. Komanso, kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso kungayambitse khalidwe loipa ndi kutaya mtima, zomwe zimakhudza momwe timagwirira ntchito kuntchito.

Ubwino wa ulesi:

Ngakhale kuti ulesi ukhoza kuwonedwa ngati khalidwe loipa, ungakhalenso ndi phindu kwa ife. Ulesi ukhoza kutithandiza kumasuka ndi kupezanso mphamvu zathu, zomwe zingapangitse kuti tigwire bwino ntchito ndi ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku. Kuonjezera apo, ulesi ukhoza kutipatsanso nthawi yosinkhasinkha, kupenda zolinga zathu ndi kuika zinthu zofunika patsogolo, zomwe zingatithandize kuwongolera moyo wathu. Ulesi ungatithandizenso kuti tizigwirizananso ndi anthu amene timawakonda, kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi achibale komanso anzathu, komanso kuti tizikondana kwambiri.

Ntchito imatithandiza kuzindikira zomwe tingathe

Ubwino wina waukulu wa ntchito ndikuti umatithandiza kudziwa zomwe tingathe komanso kukulitsa luso lathu. Tikamagwira ntchito mwachidwi komanso modzipereka, nthawi zambiri timadabwa kuti titha kuchita zambiri kuposa momwe timaganizira. Kuonjezera apo, kupyolera mu ntchito yathu, timakulitsa ndikuphunzira zinthu zatsopano, zomwe zingatsegule zitseko ndikutipatsa mwayi watsopano m'moyo.

Ulesi ukhoza kutilepheretsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu

Ngati sitili okonzeka kuyesetsa kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zathu, titha kukhala okakamira komanso okakamira. Ulesi ukhoza kutipangitsa kuwononga nthawi ndi kunyalanyaza udindo wathu, zomwe zingakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa pa ntchito zathu ndi moyo wathu wonse. Ngakhale kuti kupumula ndi kupumula n’kofunika, ulesi wokhazikika ukhoza kutilepheretsa kupeza chipambano chimene timafuna.

Ntchito imatipatsa chikhutiro ndi chisangalalo

Tikamayesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu, timakhala osangalala komanso timaona kuti tachita zinthu zinazake. Tikakhala odzipereka komanso kuchita chidwi ndi zomwe timachita, timakhala okhutira ndi ntchito yathu ndikukhala osangalala komanso okhutira kwambiri. Kumbali ina, ulesi ukhoza kuchititsa munthu kusachita bwino ndi kudziona ngati wosakhutira ndi moyo wake.

Ntchito ikhoza kutithandiza kumanga maubwenzi ndikukulitsa luso lachiyanjano

Ntchito ingatipatse mwayi wapadera womanga maubwenzi komanso kukulitsa luso la anthu. Tikamagwira ntchito m'magulu kapena timagwira ntchito limodzi ndi anthu ena, timatha kuphunzira kulankhulana bwino, kuthetsa mikangano komanso kukulitsa luso lathu la utsogoleri. Kuonjezela apo, nchito ingatipangitse kukumana ndi anthu a zikhalidwe ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana, n’kutipatsa mpata wophunzila zinthu zatsopano ndi kukulitsa kaonedwe kathu ka dziko.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, ntchito ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la moyo wathu lomwe lingatibweretsere zabwino zambiri komanso zokhutira patokha komanso mwaukadaulo. Ntchito ingatithandize kukulitsa luso lathu, kukula m’kudzidalira ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu, kaya zikugwirizana ndi ntchito yathu kapena mbali zina za moyo wathu. Kumbali ina, ulesi ukhoza kutikhudza moipa mwakuthupi ndi m’maganizo, kutilepheretsa kuzindikira zimene tingathe ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu. N’chifukwa chake n’kofunika kudziwa kufunika kwa ntchito ndi kuyesetsa kuchita zinthu mogwira mtima komanso mogwira mtima kuti tikhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa komanso wokhutiritsa.

Kupanga kofotokozera za Ntchito ndi ulesi - kulimbana mkati mwa munthu aliyense

Ntchito ndi ulesi ndi mphamvu ziwiri zotsutsana zomwe zilipo mwa munthu aliyense, ndipo kulimbana pakati pawo kumatsimikizira njira ya moyo wathu. Amene amatha kugonjetsa ulesi ndi kudzipereka okha kuntchito amapeza phindu la khama lawo, pamene omwe amagonja ku ulesi amatha kutaya chitsogozo ndi chilimbikitso m'moyo.

Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti ntchito ndi udindo chabe komanso kuti munthu apulumuke, koma zoona zake n’zakuti ntchitoyo ndi yoposa pamenepo. Ntchito ndi njira yopititsira patsogolo luso lathu ndi kukulitsa mikhalidwe yathu monga kulimbikira ndi kudzilanga. Kupyolera mu ntchito yathu, titha kubweretsa kusintha kwabwino m'dziko lathu ndikumva kukhutitsidwa ndi kukhutitsidwa.

Kumbali ina, ulesi ndi mdani wa kupita patsogolo ndi chitukuko chaumwini. Iwo amene amadzilola kuti agwe mu ulesi amadzadzimva kukhala okakamira komanso opanda chilimbikitso choti akwaniritse maloto ndi zolinga zawo. Kuwonjezera apo, ulesi ukhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zoipa pa thanzi lathu lakuthupi ndi lamaganizo.

Ntchito ndi ulesi nthawi zambiri zimasemphana mkati mwathu, ndipo momwe timachitira nkhondoyi ndizomwe zimatsimikizira moyo wathu. Ndikofunika kupeza kulinganiza koyenera pakati pa ziwirizi ndikuwonetsetsa kuti tikupereka nthawi ndi mphamvu zathu kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zathu ndikukwaniritsa maloto athu.

Njira imodzi yothanirana ndi ulesi ndiyo kukhazikitsa zolinga zomveka bwino ndikuyang'ana zochita zenizeni zofunika kuzikwaniritsa. Kuonjezera apo, tingapeze chilimbikitso chathu ndi chilimbikitso m'zitsanzo zabwino zomwe zimatizungulira, monga anthu omwe akwanitsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo pogwiritsa ntchito khama lawo ndi kudzipereka.

Pomaliza, kulimbana pakati pa ntchito ndi ulesi kuyenera kumveka ngati gawo lofunikira la moyo wathu ndipo tiyenera kuyesetsa kuphunzirapo. Pogonjetsa ulesi ndikudzipereka tokha kuntchito, tikhoza kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu ndikukula payekha komanso mwaukadaulo.