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Nkhani ya dziko limene ndinabadwira

Cholowa changa... Mawu osavuta, koma ndi tanthauzo lakuya. Ndiko kumene ndinabadwira ndi kukulira, kumene ndinaphunzira kukhala chimene ndiri lero. Ndi malo omwe chilichonse chikuwoneka ngati chodziwika bwino komanso chamtendere, koma nthawi yomweyo chodabwitsa komanso chosangalatsa.

Kudziko lakwathu, ngodya iliyonse ya mseu imakhala ndi nkhani, nyumba iliyonse ili ndi mbiri, nkhalango kapena mtsinje uliwonse uli ndi nthano. M’maŵa uliwonse ndimadzuka ndi kulira kwa mbalame ndi fungo la udzu wodulidwa kumene, ndipo madzulo ndimazunguliridwa ndi phokoso labata la chilengedwe. Ndi dziko limene miyambo ndi zamakono zimakumana m'njira yogwirizana komanso yokongola.

Koma dziko langa si malo chabe. Ndi anthu okhala pano omwe ali ndi mitima yayikulu ndi olandiridwa, okonzeka nthawi zonse kutsegula nyumba zawo ndikugawana nawo chisangalalo cha moyo. M’misewu muli anthu ambiri panthaŵi yatchuthi, ndi magetsi amitundumitundu ndi nyimbo zachikhalidwe. Ndi chakudya chokoma komanso fungo la khofi wophikidwa kumene.

Cholowa changa chimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wotetezeka komanso wotetezedwa, monga ndimangomva ndili kwathu. Kumeneko n’kumene ndinakulira limodzi ndi banja langa ndipo ndinaphunzira kuyamikira zinthu zosavuta komanso zofunika kwambiri pamoyo. Ndipamene ndinakumana ndi anzanga apamtima ndipo ndinakumbukira zomwe ndidzazikonda mpaka kalekale.

Monga ndidanenera, malo omwe ndinabadwira ndikukulira adakhudza kwambiri umunthu wanga komanso momwe ndimawonera dziko lapansi. Ndili mwana, nthawi zambiri ndinkapita kwa agogo anga, omwe ankakhala m’mudzi wabata pakati pa chilengedwe, kumene nthawi inkaoneka kuti ikuyenda mosiyana. M’maŵa uliwonse unali chizolowezi kupita kuchitsime chapakati pamudzi kukatunga madzi abwino akumwa. Panjira yopita ku kasupeko, tinadutsa nyumba zakale ndi zoduka, ndipo mpweya wabwino wa m’maŵa unadzaza m’mapapo mwathu ndi fungo la maluwa ndi zomera zimene zinakuta chilichonse.

Nyumba ya agogo inali m’mphepete mwa mudzi ndipo inali ndi dimba lalikulu lodzaza ndi maluwa ndi ndiwo zamasamba. Nthaŵi zonse ndikafika kumeneko, ndinkakhala m’munda, ndikuyang’ana m’mizere iliyonse yamaluwa ndi ndiwo zamasamba ndikumva fungo lokoma la maluŵa amene anandizinga. Ndinkakonda kuwonera kuwala kwa dzuwa kumasewera pamaluwa amaluwa, ndikusandutsa dimba kukhala chiwonetsero chamitundu ndi nyali zenizeni.

Pamene ndinali kukula, Ndinayamba kumvetsa bwino kwambiri kugwirizana pakati pa ine ndi kumene ndinabadwira ndi kukulira. Ndinayamba kuyamikira kwambiri mkhalidwe wamtendere ndi wachilengedwe wa mudziwo ndi kupanga mabwenzi pakati pa anthu okhalamo. Tsiku ndi tsiku, ndimakonda kuyenda kwa chilengedwe changa, ndikusilira malo okongola a kwathu komanso kupanga mabwenzi atsopano. Choncho, dziko lakwathu ndi malo odzaza ndi kukongola ndi miyambo, malo omwe ndinabadwira ndikukulira, ndipo izi ndi zikumbukiro zomwe ndidzazisunga nthawi zonse mu mtima mwanga.

Pamapeto pake, dziko langa ndi kumene mtima wanga umapeza mtendere ndi chisangalalo. Ndiko komwe ndimabwerera nthawi zonse ndi chikondi komanso komwe ndikudziwa kuti ndidzakhala olandiridwa nthawi zonse. Ndi malo omwe amandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine gawo lathunthu ndikulumikizana ndi mizu yanga. Ndi malo amene ndidzawakonda nthawi zonse ndi kunyadira.

Pansi pake, cholowa changa chimatanthawuza chilichonse kwa ine. Kumene ndinakulira, kumene ndinaphunzira kukhala mmene ndiliri lerolino, ndi kumene ndakhala ndikudzimva kukhala wosungika. Kudziwa miyambo ndi mbiri ya komwe ndinachokera kunandipangitsa kukhala wonyada ndi kuyamikira chiyambi changa. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, ndinazindikira kuti cholowa changa chinali gwero la chilimbikitso ndi luso kwa ine. Tsiku lililonse ndimayesetsa kuphunzira zambiri za izo ndikusunga kulumikizana kwanga kolimba ndi malo a makolo anga.

Amatchedwa "cholowa changa"

Kwathu ndi kumene ndinabadwira komanso kukulira, mbali ya dziko imene ndimaikonda kwambiri ndipo nthaŵi zonse imandipatsa malingaliro amphamvu a kunyada ndi kukondedwa. Malowa ndi osakanikirana bwino a chilengedwe, miyambo ndi chikhalidwe, ndikupangitsa kuti ikhale yapadera komanso yapadera pamaso panga.

Ndili kumidzi, tauni yakwathu yazunguliridwa ndi mapiri ndi nkhalango zowirira, kumene phokoso la mbalame ndi fungo la maluŵa akutchire zimagwirizana bwino ndi mpweya wabwino ndi wotsitsimula. Maonekedwe a nthano awa nthawi zonse amandibweretsera mtendere ndi mtendere wamkati, nthawi zonse zimandipatsa mwayi wowonjezera mphamvu ndikulumikizananso ndi chilengedwe.

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Miyambo ndi zikhalidwe zakumaloko zimasungidwabe mopatulika ndi okhala m’dziko langa. Kuyambira magule amtundu ndi nyimbo zachikhalidwe, ntchito zamanja ndi zaluso, chilichonse ndi chuma chamtengo wapatali cha chikhalidwe cha komweko. Chaka chilichonse m’mudzi mwanga mumakhala chikondwerero cha anthu kumene anthu ochokera m’midzi yonse yozungulira amasonkhana kuti azikondwerera ndi kusunga miyambo ndi miyambo ya kumaloko.

Kuwonjezera pa chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe chapadera, dziko lakwathu ndi kumene ndinakulira ndi banja langa komanso anzanga a moyo wonse. Ndimakumbukira bwino ubwana wanga womwe ndinali pakati pa chilengedwe, ndikusewera ndi anzanga komanso nthawi zonse kupeza malo atsopano komanso ochititsa chidwi. Kukumbukira zimenezi nthawi zonse kumabweretsa kumwetulira kumaso kwanga ndipo zimandipangitsa kumva kuyamikira malo abwino kwambiriwa.

Mbiri ya malo ingakhale njira yomvetsetsa cholowa chathu. Dera lirilonse liri ndi miyambo, chikhalidwe ndi miyambo yomwe imasonyeza mbiri yakale ndi malo a malo. Pophunzira za mbiri ndi miyambo ya malo athu, tikhoza kumvetsetsa bwino momwe cholowa chathu chatithandizira komanso kutifotokozera.

Chilengedwe chomwe tinabadwira ndikukulira Zingathenso kukhala ndi chiyambukiro champhamvu pa umunthu wathu ndi malingaliro athu pa dziko lapansi. Kuchokera kumapiri athu ndi zigwa mpaka mitsinje ndi nkhalango zathu, mbali iliyonse ya chilengedwe chathu chikhoza kuthandizira momwe timamverera kuti tikugwirizana ndi malo athu ndi anthu ena okhalamo.

Pomaliza, cholowa chathu chikhoza kuwonedwanso ngati gwero lachilimbikitso chaluso. Kuyambira ndakatulo mpaka kujambula, cholowa chathu chikhoza kukhala chilimbikitso chosatha kwa ojambula ndi opanga. Mbali iliyonse ya cholowa chathu, kuchokera kumadera achilengedwe kupita kwa anthu ammudzi ndi chikhalidwe chawo, ikhoza kusinthidwa kukhala zojambulajambula zomwe zimafotokoza nkhani ya malo athu ndikukondwerera.

Pomaliza, cholowa changa ndi malo omwe amandizindikiritsa kuti ndine ndani ndipo amandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wadziko lino. Chilengedwe, chikhalidwe ndi anthu apadera zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zapadera komanso zapadera pamaso panga, ndipo ndikunyadira kuzitcha kuti nyumba yanga.

Zolemba za cholowa

 

Dziko lakwathu ndi komwe ndimamva bwino, komwe ndimapeza mizu yanga komanso komwe ndimadzimva kuti ndine. Ndili mwana, ndinasangalala ndi ufulu ndi chisangalalo chopeza malo aliwonse a mudzi wanga, ndi msipu wobiriwira ndi maluwa omwe anaveka minda yamitundu yowoneka bwino komanso yowoneka bwino. Ndinakulira m’dera losazolowereka, kumene miyambo ndi miyambo zinkaonedwa kuti n’zopatulika komanso mmene anthu ankagwirizana m’dera lolimba.

M’maŵa uliwonse, ndinkadzuka ndikumva kulira kwa mbalame ndi fungo lochititsa chidwi la kamphepo kayeziyezi ka m’mapiri. Ndinkakonda kuyenda m’misewu yotchingidwa ndi ziyala ya mudzi wanga, ndikuchita chidwi ndi nyumba zamiyala zokhala ndi madenga ofiira komanso kumva mawu odziwika bwino akulira m’makutu mwanga. Sipanakhalepo mphindi yomwe ndimadzimva ndekha kapena ndekha, m'malo mwake, nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndikuzunguliridwa ndi anthu omwe amandipatsa chikondi ndi chithandizo chawo chopanda malire.

Kuwonjezera pa kukongola kwa chilengedwe ndi kukhazikika kokongola, dziko lakwathu likhoza kunyadira mbiri yakale komanso yosangalatsa. Tchalitchi chakale, chomangidwa mwachikhalidwe, ndi chimodzi mwa zipilala zakale kwambiri m'deralo ndi chizindikiro cha uzimu wa mudzi wanga. Chaka chilichonse m’mwezi wa August, pamachitika chikondwerero chachikulu cholemekeza woyang’anira tchalitchichi, kumene anthu amasonkhana kuti asangalale limodzi ndi chakudya, nyimbo ndi magule.

Kudziko lakwathu ndi kumene ndinapangidwa monga mwamuna, kumene ndinaphunzira kufunika kwa banja, ubwenzi ndi kulemekeza miyambo ndi miyambo imene tinatengera kwa makolo anga. Ndimakonda kuganiza kuti chikondi ndi kugwirizana kwa malo awa zimadutsa ku mibadwomibadwo ndipo pali anthu omwe amalemekeza ndi kukonda cholowa chawo. Ngakhale kuti ndachoka pamalo ano kwa nthawi yayitali, zokumbukira komanso malingaliro anga pa iwo sizisintha komanso zomveka bwino, ndipo tsiku lililonse ndimakumbukira mosangalala nthawi zonse zomwe ndidakhala kumeneko.

Siyani ndemanga.